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Nudging: Open DNS wine; drink from Waterford glass

Backstory: DNS stands for “Do Not Share” and represents the bottles of wine in our basement on which we’ve spent too much money. They were purchased amidst conversations such as “This would be great for your milestone birthday! We can open this on our anniversary! Let’s save this for…”, but then they sit on the shelves because nothing ever seems quite “DNS-worthy”.

Ridiculous. These are meant to be enjoyed!

So this week I’m going to open one up, let it breathe, then pour it into the Waterford crystal glasses my mother gave me decades ago for my Hope Chest.

Anyone else have one of those lying around? When was the last time you opened it? When was the last time you used one of the “special” items stored inside?

Here’s your Nudge to do just that.

P.S. I’m not yet sure of my husband’s plans this week, but I will try to work around his schedule so he can share in this. If he isn’t available, I’m still going to do this Nudge by and for myself. Whether you’re with a significant other, a houseful of cranky teenagers, a roommate, friends, or just your wonderful self, I hope you’ll find a way to treat yourself to something extra special this week. Don’t have anything stashed away? Why not splurge a bit and go get something, even if it’s just one glass of a super delicious beverage at a restaurant or bar? Not a drinker? Then buy the fancy chocolate or overpriced organic produce or the freshest and most delicious cut of something at the butcher’s or fish counter. You’re worth it!

Nudging: Buy flowers for the office

Backstory: This is all about one thing: self care. I should put that in caps: SELF CARE! I suck at this. Oh, I’m great at taking care of others. I call to check in on friends and family members, send notes in sympathy and appreciation, deliver the occasional small gift, remember the milestone events big and small, and drop off flowers, sometimes anonymously. (See the “Do a Fairy Deed” Nudge in April.) But do nice things for myself? Not so much…up until now….

P.S. For me this week, it’s about getting out and spending a little bit of money on myself, to treat myself to some everyday beauty. Other times when I’ve wanted to do this, I’ve had to get a little creative. Maybe there is something blooming in the backyard. That works in a pinch. I say weeds, my husband says wildflowers. If it’s pretty, pick it! Who cares? I’ve also been known to cut branches from our lemon or olive trees and arrange a vase with just the greenery. Or maybe this is a Nudge to stop and talk with the neighbor whose garden you’ve so been admiring. You might get a cutting for your efforts, and it might even be the start of a beautiful new friendship.